Thursday, October 15, 2009

Is it real?

Do people really stab their own relatives with whom they must've laughed and cracked jokes with? Do people really pour kerosene on someone just because of some money? Do people really sleep well after having snatched the sleep of many by their activities?How can people kill anyone for no rhyme or reason?

These questions made me numb one day.I know,I seem to be living in a world of dreams,but no...the rising news about that person killing this person,that person cheated this lot of people...has really made me wonder,what is our worth in this world if anyone just barges into our house and just blows it up?

What is it that might make people be more positive,more patient,more calmer,more understanding?

But there are good things too..as I realised today.I had gone to a shop to do Spiral Binding of my record sheets.The man there told me to come later.I said immediately "Anna,I have to go to my native place today."(The truth is I am going home tomorrow,and I was in a hurry as I was having a terrible headache...hence the lie).
He immediately did the work for me,although he already had other waiting customers.I regretted it deeply.I lied to him.I maybe cost him a couple of customers.I came back to my hostel with a heavy heart.

But something about the whole episode made me sit up and think.Was it real that the man had actually been touched as I said I needed to go home?Is it real that people's heart get touched hearing someone's plight?Do people get disturbed too,in these times,about other people's welfare and stay awake all night? Is it real that when you do good to others,they remember it and remember you too? Is it real that when you do good to others,then you are also gifted with someone else's good deed to you?Do such people exist who are not from your family,and we term them as friends,and yet they sacrifice for us many things which we might have not?

My mind is numb again.What is real?Does it really happen that good things always happen to good people,even in such times?

I would be glad if you would share your experiences..good or bad...that perhaps had left your mind numb..numb with pain..or numb with happiness!

Cheers!
Have a happy week ahead! :)

10 comments:

  1. @anu. ..hi this is ash as u know..

    "ya it happens..when i dont tell anything so loving as such to a frnd of mine or any, they feel at that time i had been so caring and true about her.. but when i had spoken so truly and with so much sentiments they regret to be touched".....this is life!
    feelings vary and love varies tooo

    accept analyse and act...

    take care!

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  2. अच्छे और बुरे इंसान दोनों ही हैं इस संसार में. बस फर्क सिर्फ इतना है कि बुरे लोगों की तादात ज्यादा है. हाँ लेकिन सबके अपने अपने अनुभव भी हैं बुरे भी और अच्छे भी. सिर्फ पूरी दुनिया से आस लगाये रहना भी सही नहीं...हम कितने अच्छे और बुरे हैं इस बात का बहुत फर्क पड़ता है...

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  3. @Anil Kaant
    Haan aapne sahi baat boli hai.Lekin kya bure logon ki taadaat ab badh gayee hai ya abhi humein sabki buraaiyaan aur bhi zyaada nazar aane lagi hain?

    @Ash
    True...
    Thanx for your comment! :)

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  4. @ Anu
    It is everytime Life make me realize the impact of attitude of people.

    We cannot indeed teach people to act in certain way. But we can definitely try to understand the emotions of different circumtances.

    Be more empathetic to embrace inevitable beauty in emotions like love and hatred..and learn!

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  5. till now wt i have experienced in Life is "whatever u will do it will come back to you" may be not that time but definately in ur Life time. :)n yes it is real that when you do good to others,they remember it and remember you too, yes it is real that when you do good to others,then you are also gifted with someone else's good deed to you, yes such people exists who are not from your family,and we term them as friends,and yet they sacrifice for us many things which we might have not.. :)

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  6. Life is like a mirror. You get what you give. Be good to people :)

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  7. I second aditya!
    Thats what i felt!
    May be a little sorry would've calmed down your heart!

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  8. One should believe in Geeta Updesh.
    Do your duty and don't await awards.
    In life,what goes around,comes around.

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  9. Yeah there were many instances......
    Its a fact when you help others, they will help you..........

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  10. Anu,

    Somehow somewhere your posts throw up a lot of things which have animated my own thought (if not actions) for quite some time now. And I am glad you have had the poise to assess the parochial superficial types who would do anything to get ahead as well as those who are touched with concern for your plight even if they are unrelated to you.

    As a dear one used to say, and p'haps she was true, there are NO easy answers!!! I know I might sound lame as I say this but I have recently discovered that it takes "all sorts"!

    But you seem to have a "fine" mind. Cultivate it and do not let it be robbed of its uniqueness by the humdrum noise of our un-musical times! :)

    Cheers

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